What I Learned On Family Vacation
My wife, my two preschoolers, and I recently drove from Canon City, Colorado to Readstown, Wisconsin in a 4-door dodge neon. I'm happy to report my children are still alive. Believe it or not this was one of the most enjoyable times I've experienced in the past year. My family grew closer and I learned to experience joy in that most exasperating of questions, "Are we there yet?"I learned that it is better to be creative than it is to be frustrated and angry. One of my boys would ask, "Are we there yet?"I would answer, "Yes, but only in our existential and ethereal lives." Which bought about 10 minutes of silence as they tried to figure out what I'd just said.

There was one point as we were approaching Onowa, Iowa on our return trip at which I found myself wanting to use every expletive I'd learned in my eight years as a correctional professional as well as wanting to try my hand at creating a few. The boys were tired, loud, talkative, and only barely listening as I and my wife attempted to speak rationally to them about shutting their mouths..So instead of blowing a diode and risking the safety of everyone in the car, I began to engage the boys in a question and answer session about what they loved about our vacation to date. Questions like, "Duncan, what three things did you like most about spending time with greatgrandpa Gayle?" Within minutes, both boys were chomping at the bit to answer the next question; I was back in control, and in the process learned a great deal about the loves, goals, and thought processes of a three and a five year old. It turned into one of the highlights of the trip.I learned that creativity and patience provide much more joy and control than loud volume, and intimidation. I learned that our

Walt Disney World, did you know that....?
Disney World never, ever has any ?lost children? at their theme parks. It is the parents that are lost! Cast members undergo special training to make sure that children who become separated from their parents are made to feel comfortable. This way is it hoped that the children will not become stressed and it makes it easier for the missing parents to be found. The bricks in Cinderella?s Castle become smaller the higher up they are. This is a particular method called ?forced perspective?. It gives the appearance of the castle being taller than it actually is. Every mosaic in the Moroccan pavilion in Epcot has one cracked or flawed tile within it. Artisans, who were brought to Orlando from their home country of Morocco, created the mosaics and their belief is that only Allah can produce something which is perfect. So in order to respect this belief they purposely included flaws in all the mosaics. Animal Kingdom is the largest Disney theme park in the world. It is five ...

family has a lot of great things to share with each other if we take the time to get over being tired and allow even the youngest to have their say.

I learned that I too, am not immune to threatening to "pull this car over, right now!" Finally, I learned it is imperative to pay attention when your son tells you he's got a "yucky tummy" and feels like throwing up..